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August 1 is Sisters Day

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Submitted by Anonymous on

What if you hate your sisters? I can't stand mine, well, one of them is ok, but the other one not so much. Sisters have especially tense relationships all their lives. Competing for father's attention and approval, competing with mother for father's attention and affection. And then there's the constant stealing of clothes from eachother, and not to mention boys. Ugh! I don't know, I say keep a healthy distance, especially as you get older and there's more to hurt eachother with. Of course not all sister relationships are like that, but the more I talk to women who have sisters the more I ralize that I am not alone in hating my sisters.

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Submitted by sarajean on

I understand what you're saying. When we were young, my sisters and I did not get along--mostly because I was older and very resentful about having to take care of them while my parents worked, and they would "gang up" on me to play tricks, hide, threaten to "call grandma" if I didn't do what they wanted, etc. What a mess, eh? My self today would have been great at dealing with them, but at 11 I sure was not up to the task. 

Now that I'm older--my sisters and I are all in our 20s--our relationships have matured and get along much better. I don't know how old you are (parental approval, stealing clothes and boy issues sounds young), but as you get older--and especially when you move out and away from one another--you often get closer. There may be some hope yet!

Maybe you could spend some time with the sister you do like, and think about what makes you dislike your other sister. What good qualities does she have? What makes her act the way she does? Even if you don't end up liking her, it never hurts to analyze what it's like to be in someone else's shoes. 

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